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Moving emails continue to pour into Do1Thing. They encourage us to work harder to show these images nationwide to raise awareness, create change and encourage each and every one of us to Do1Thing to help.

This email from a former foster youth came in yesterday:

“I am sitting here crying my eyes out. I want to thank you for bringing to light this problem – so many people seem to want to ignore the people suffering on their own doorstep. I spent 3 years in foster care from age 15-18, and only by the grace of God have a family who supports me as an adult.
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I am crying for the foster children that I knew along the way – the 28 kids I met in the group home, the foster brothers who ran away and turned up beaten – who could be anywhere now. I fear for them, wonder what has happened to their lives. I think about them being cold and homeless, and my heart shatters.

Foster care is already such a traumatic experience – it teaches you to believe you are expendable. If someone doesn’t want you, you’re gone in a heartbeat. And then to age out… It cements this thought process. Those who become successful are the exception to the rule, and in my opinion, that is a travesty.

I intend to become as involved as I can in making this known. No child should suffer alone, and as children of the State, we should not suffer as adults either.

Thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart.”

Submitted by a former foster youth: Mallory

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Jamie Redmond sent Do1Thing the email below. We’ve been changed forever by this project and wanted to share this email with you.

I have to tell you, I feel that I have been forever changed because of this cause. After reading the article in the PEOPLE magazine, I felt a surge of emotion come over me. We visited Chicago this weekend and I saw countless people sitting on the subway trains and I wondered if they were homeless and just looking for a warm place to sleep, and after reading the article on these teenage kids, I realize that many of them probably were. I have vowed to take an active part in this campaign. My husband and I are not wealthy, but I am hoping to use contacts to network. I have 2 uncles that are professional photographers that, if they are not able to directly help, know many people all across the United States. And sometimes, just knowing the right person can make a big difference. I commend each and every one of you for your efforts in a large undertaking.

I think that there is so much focus on homelessness and hunger outside of the US that sometimes are own neighbors are being for
gotten. I truly hope that through exposure we will all be able to make a difference. We all take for granted be loved and cared for and I think that these kids need encouragement, a warm bed, a good meal, and…the icing on the cake, someone to show them that they are worth every bit of their existence. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for an eye-opening, life changing cause. Even though I am just discovery do1thing for the first time today, I feel empowered to help make a change.

And please, help Do1Thing raise funds for a traveling gallery by voting for us here, it will just take a few seconds and cost nothing!

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Story By Andre Francisco

Photographs by Dan Dry

Andrew Green has lived most of his life by other people’s rules. There were rules in the foster homes, rules in the group homes, nothing but rules at the boot camp in Wisconsin, and now every night he hears the rules barked out at the Epworth Single Men’s Shelter.

“There is one rule that all other rules fall under,” shouted Vince Stefanelli, the shelter manager for the night. “Do not piss me off.”

Andrew Green, 18 years old, who has been homeless for 8 months s

Green is 19 and homeless. He spends his days walking around the Uptown neighborhood of Chicago and his nights in the gym of the Epworth United Methodist Church. He’s in the single men’s program run by Cornerstone Community Outreach and is by far the youngest member. Few of the other men are under 30, and many are in their 50’s.

But in the larger picture of homelessness in America, Green is not an anomaly. Many of the nation’s homeless are teenagers, often who have grown out of the foster system with little education and fewer job skills.

Green has been homeless for 8 months and despite spending his days in a neighborhood filled with social services, he has no strong leads to a way out of homelessness.

“It sucks being homeless,” Green said. “ I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy.”

Green is woken up every morning around 6:30 a.m. by the staff of the Epworth Shelter. He sleeps on a six-inch-thick blue mattress covered by a blanket with a giant picture of the Virgin Mary.

His mattress is one of sometimes 70 in the shelter.

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The gym is one basketball court long with a small stage and an old TV and VCR. There are four VHS tapes and one DVD but no DVD player to play it in. The lines on the basketball court are long warn off, the plaster on the walls is cracked and missing, and the tall thin windows are covered in plastic sheeting to keep the heat in.

andrew-green3Green is a regular so he gets the same bed number each night. As the youngest man in the shelter, many people feel like they have taken Green under their wing. Shelter managers, clients who volunteer at the shelter, and some Cornerstone staff said they take special care to watch out for him. Everyone says he is a good kid, but in the next breath they all mention his tendency to “run his lout mouth” and get in trouble.

Green is small, but it’s difficult to get a good measure of him because he is always dressed in multiple layers and coats that are a few sizes too big. He has bad acne, a broad smile and smokes whenever he can get his hands on a cigarette.

He only goes by Andrew while in the shelter. When he steps outside and down to his regular corner outside the SL Pantry he has a new name.

“I go by Lokz,” he said.

Green used to run with a group of Latinos in California who thought his street antics to be especially crazy, so they called him Loco. Green didn’t like the name and after a few alterations settled on Lokz. Now he seems undeserving of the name except for his good-natured fights with his friend Goldie.

Green eats three meals a day at the Cornerstone kitchen, plus a second dinner and breakfast at the shelter. During the winter months, most of the men from the shelter hang out in a warming center run by Cornerstone.

The warming center is an open room with a hodge-podge of salvaged and donated chairs circled around an old and fading TV. Some guys play pool and other shoot hoops and smoke in what used to be a large garage for the building.

The warming shelter is also the first step in a long list of rules that Green has to follow to get a bed at Epworth. Everyday he must sign in at the warming shelter before 4:30 p.m. to secure a bed that night. Missing a day or showing up drunk can get him barred from the shelter for a night.

At the shelter he waits in line until called and then yells out his blanket number and is assigned a bed. With an ID card as collateral, Green can get a towel, a cube of brown soap and a hotel sized Aveda Rosemary-Mint Shampoo to use in one of the three showers in the back.

To stay in the shelter, Green also had to be tested for tuberculosis.

“Even though no one has caught that shit since Jesus was around,” said Green.

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Before he started staying regularly at the Epworth Shelter, Green spent his nights on a cardboard mattress on the loading dock behind a wholesale oriental food distributor. When he wasn’t there he slept on the El, but always on the blue line. As the red line approached 95th St. the chances increased of someone picking a fight or stealing his stuff.

On his first night in the area, Green stayed at a men’s shelter run by REST. There he met Alejandro “Alex” Ramirez, who is now one of his close friends. Ramirez is a big guy from the Dominican Republic who has taken Green on as a window washing assistant. They get $10 for washing the front windows at a check cashing storefront in a strip mall.

Green’s last steady job was as a dishwasher at a restaurant in Wisconsin over a year ago. He has no real job skills and faces some practical hurdles to getting a job. He has no birth certificate, no GED, no social security card and no ID. An organization called Alternatives is helping him apply for his birth certificate and has given him a voicemail box, but getting an ID is especially difficult when you aren’t living in your home state.

Green said his education was poor because he moved between foster homes so often. His last formal schooling was when he was 17 and in the 10th grade, which would put him about two years behind. Though he’d like a GED, he isn’t optimistic.

“I’m not smart enough,” he said. “Like honestly. I can honestly say I’m uneducated.”

Green was born in Wisconsin and moved to California when he was 12. As a teenager he moved back into a foster home in Fitchburg, Wis. and spent some time a boot camp for teens in Spooner, Wis.

Green also spent time in Arizona, where his ex-girlfriend Lilliana now lives. Her name is tattooed in blue across his right hand. Lilliana is also the father of Green’s two-month-old daughter, who was born on Green’s 19th birthday in December. Green has never met his daughter.

“I got pictures of her on my MySpace,” he said. “I want to spend time with her. She’s my daughter too you know. But me and [her mom] are going through some things right now.”

andrew-green5Two more tattoos on his right hand tell the story of the family he has already lost. An open teardrop and a cross with his mother’s initials symbolize her death.

On Sundays, Green occasionally attends Unity Christian Church in a small storefront on Sheridan Rd. The church is a plain room with row of metal folding chairs and bars on the windows. Green is usually the only white member among the small, mostly African immigrant congregation. He attended regularly until getting in an argument with senior pastor Albert Kouame. His loud mouth had come up again. Green said he goes to church to feel cleansed, but not forgiven, of his sins.

“I believe in God, but God ain’t done shit for me in my life,” he said.

Green dreams of getting a place of his own and a good job. He doesn’t want to live in a single room occupancy, often the first step for the homeless, or in a studio.

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“I want to get a crib. Like an apartment, something like that,” he said.

A good job would be something he likes and that could get him the fast money he needs to get off the street. He admits to having few skills, but says he excels at one thing.

“I’m really bomb at giving massages,” he said. “I give some killer massages, but I know that that type of business doesn’t make the quick money that I need to get up out of here.”

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The Do1Thing cake donated for the Covenant House prom in Newark.

The Do1Thing cake donated for the Covenant House prom in Newark

If you’re wondering what all those single acts of kindness added up to on Valentine’s Day, here’s an early report from Covenant House:

In New York City approximately $20,000 was raised and you filled the clothing room with in-kind gifts.

In New Jersey you raised another $10,000, you filled half of a large room with donated goods, you filled the gym with people, threw a prom for the kids and you topped off the pantry and filled the freezer.

In Orlando you delivered new clothing, baby items, hygiene supplies, gym supplies, books and cash.

In Missouri local media coverage from St. Louis Catholic Review, KIHT and KLOU-FM spawned numerous clothing drives amongst you and you raised more cash for the local Covenant House.

In Georgia one of the highlights was a group of high school and college students from Christ Harvest Ministries, who stayed all day and played basketball with the kids. Covenant House also received numerous gift cards, clothes and school supplies from you.

In Michigan more than 100 of you showed up and donated cash along with in-kind gifts estimated at another couple of thousand dollars. The local Fox news television station helped raise awareness.

In Texas they’re still trying to add up the in-kind, monetary and gift card donations you delivered. They had terrific turn out due to coverage in the Houston Chronicle and a 3.5 minute piece on the local Fox morning show. Tours went on all day long. Importantly, many of you said you had never heard of Covenant House and came out that day because of the coverage.

In Washington D.C. coverage on the local NBC affiliate, local cable News Channel 8, and two local newspapers, the D.C. Examiner and East of the River, caused you to come out in large numbers and give in-kind donations.

Around the country Covenant House received at least $75,000 in cash donations, which is enough to keep at least two kids in a Covenant House facility for an entire year. This includes the cost of feeding them, housing them and providing them with all the medical and professional needs they might require.

Additionally, traffic at the Covenant House website was “way up” (we still don’t have exact numbers) and awareness of the youth homelessness problem was raised.

This all happened because so many of YOU did 1 thing.

If you weren’t able to Do 1 Thing on Valentine’s Day, that’s OK, there will be plenty of future opportunities.

Keep coming back to this site for more information. Or better yet, sign up for our e-mail list so you won’t miss your opportunity to do 1 thing.

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Nina Berman, a New-York based photojournalist, traveled to the Open Door Shelter in Chicago, Illinois, to photograph Jonathan Smith, 20, for Do1Thing.org .

Smith has been living at the shelter for several months. He grew up outside of Buffalo, New York in a household of alcoholism and abuse with several reports filed to the state’s child protection services by his school and neighbors. He left home at 16 and has had minimal contact with his family. He described his childhood as one that left him “emotionally and physically scarred.”

This presentation is a SoundSlides audio slideshow converted to video.

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